How to Tell Your Family You Are Eloping Without Feeling Guilty
Y’all… there’s a moment—usually right after you have decided to elope—where the absolute silence of your decision is broken by
What if your wedding day actually felt like your absolute best first date? The kind of day where you wake up completely relaxed, getting ready with ease, spending the afternoon laughing, exploring the city and sharing beignets or cocktails—except you end the day married to your best friend.
That is what we do here.
Photos come second. (Yeah, we said it.)
If you want a meaningful wedding day without the performative production, you’ve found your people.
We don’t do stuffy, and we definitely don’t do traditional. We serve as a sanctuary for couples who choose real moments over a structured timeline. Whether that means wearing a classic gown with sneakers or walking through the French Quarter with a drink in hand looking effortlessly iconic, you belong here.
As the original all-inclusive elopement team in New Orleans, we’ve been taking care of every single detail since 2014. We coordinate your cinematic photography, the top-tier local officiant, the fresh wedding cake and the personalized florals so you don't have to face a single headache.
Simply book your travel, pack your rings, don't forget your paperwork and let us take care of the rest. Your only job is to show up, breathe deep and take it all in.
Expertly curated locations for your all-inclusive elopement
The Vibe
Historic, soulful and vibrant. Think cobblestone alleys, wrought-iron balconies and the sound of brass bands in the distance.
Best For
Couples wanting iconic NOLA energy, architecture and a short walk to a world-class celebratory dinner.
All-Inclusive Touch: We know the quietest times for the best light & less crowds in the French Quarter.
The Vibe
Ethereal, lush and timeless. Acres of manicured gardens, stone bridges and a peaceful escape from the city hustle.
Best For
Couples looking for a "fairytale" feel with greenery & winding lagoons. City Park boasts the largest concentration of stunning oaks in the USA.
All-Inclusive Touch: We handle the park permits and guide you to a truly magical experience.
The History
The Etienne de Boré Oak, planted circa 1740. Standing here is joining a story nearly 300 years in the making.
Best For
Couples seeking a ceremony connected to nature and a romantic "strength of the tree represents the strength of your marriage" symbolism.
All-Inclusive Touch: Permit is included in our package + we time your vows so sunlight filters perfectly through the massive branches.
The Vibe
Serene, exclusive and breathtaking. A private escape onto Lake Pontchartrain as the skyline glows in the distance.
Best For
Couples trading city streets for the tide. Total privacy with a front-row seat to a New Orleans sunset.
All-Inclusive Touch: We coordinate the charter, the nautical timing and the celebratory toast.
"Marcia is a confident communicator and local guide. I felt I could relax knowing she could handle everything."
Karen L.
"Marcia offered the perfect spot for our vow exchange. For those wanting a less stressful way to say I do, definitely say YES to iBay!"
Mehgan S.
"Marcia helped plan our curated elopement down to the smallest details. Her local knowledge was invaluable."
Jenny R.
"The Ibay team was incredibly supportive. They captured our day with stunning color and lighting and made everything stress-free."
Sage W.
"Aside from stellar photographs, we leveraged Marcia's network of services. We connected with our officiant, baker, and florist."
Kyle M.
"From the flowers to the cake to the beautiful pictures, this was the wedding of our dreams. I recommend eloping in NOLA to everyone!"
Melissa S.
"Marcia is a great communicator! She took care of pretty much everything and I literally had nothing to worry about. Our photos came out amazing. I am still in awe."
If you want the truth—the kind of insight that only comes from a team that has documented hundreds of intimate celebrations—here it is: There is an unmatched magic when a couple chooses to elope entirely alone. By intentionally bypassing the guest list production, you completely reclaim the day for yourselves.
Explore the Solo Experience Pathway →Your elopement photographer, planner and unofficial keep-it-real specialist.
I’ve lived in this city all my life, and I still get goosebumps every single time a brass band starts playing down the street. New Orleans isn't just a backdrop to me—it's a feeling.
My goal isn't to just check boxes off a wedding list. It’s to protect your peace of mind and make sure you actually get to enjoy your day. Our all-inclusive packages cover the paperwork logistics, the timeline, the officiant and full photography coverage. Whether you’re tying the knot beneath the live oaks or wandering the historic avenues, I’ve got your back.
Our 5-star reviews aren’t luck. They come from years of experience, flawless preparation, and treating your wedding day like it’s our own. I’d love to hear your story, because I know it’s a great one.
With love and soul,
Marcia Ibay
Founder & Lead Curator
From "What if?" to "I do" in three effortless steps.
Let’s turn your ideas into a plan. We’ll check your date availability, explore iconic NOLA ceremony backdrops and make sure we’re the perfect fit to tell your story.
Once your retainer is set and the contract is signed, the weight is off your shoulders. Your date is locked, and our local expertise is officially at your service.
We curate the timeline, florals, photography and logistics while you focus on each other. Simply show up, breathe deep & soak in your New Orleans moments.
Bottom line: We are not elopement photographers who also shoot traditional weddings.
We specialize in elopements ❤️
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